Thursday, February 24, 2011

Relationship Sexuality Marriage

After watched a movie called “Eat Pray Love”, is about a women try to “find herself” across the 3 countries, Italy, India and Indonesia, I’m so impress the life and journey of Julia Roberts in the movie. Believing there’s more to life than other things, finding herself new appetites in her life with good foods, meditation and of course true love. The movie really grabs my heart and it will make you start having relationship with foods as well, (Say Hello to your muffin top.)

Talking about eat pray love; recently the topic between me and my buddies is all about “Relationship Sexuality Marriage”. I can’t deny I have a strong desire to get into a relationship recently but the problem is, from where I can get a right man?

For a relationship, the friends from different countries have their own different saying. One of them told me, “If you want to keep your relationship for last longer; first of all, you have to f**k your man.” *sign**, and another friend said, “for getting a rich man to be your boyfriend, you need to make yourself become a bitch! Bitches always cheat those jerks, and good girls always get cheated by jerks.”

Hmmm…Nice saying…LOL… I know they’re out of their mind, but who cares, I love them…ha-ha…

If girls want to have a relationship or marriage, what kind of men are their idealist boyfriends or husband? Should search for a good guy? Or maybe a bad guy sounds not bad?

For me, there are no differences between a good guy and a bad guy and you know why? Just a very simple answers, because a bad guy screw you and a good guy screw you too.

For all the former single girls out there, guess what! Just try to imagine what will happen after you said “I do”? Will it going to be a happy ending or a disaster?

In my opinion, for a relationship, it is ok if a man has lots of love but less “bread” [richness], but for marriage I think everyone prefer “bread” more than love. I know it sounds realities, but I thought this is how the world looks like, isn’t it?

Anyway, I’m not decide to have a marriage in my future, too much of responsibilities need to carry and you have to work on some sparkles non-stop in marriage to keep it “fresh”. I think I need lots of air to breathe, life for two is too crowded, so love but less “bread”, hmm... sounds romantic and adventure…ha-ha… But, love and bread if both have it, then it will be perfect!